Don’t be a Cynic

It is finally starting to feel like fall here, which is good considering it is almost October. As we roll into autumn with its shorter days and dark, sometimes dreary nights, it is good to remember this quote by Emerson:

"A cynic can chill and dishearten with a single word." Ralph Waldo Emerson

“A cynic can chill and dishearten with a single word.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

It reminds me to not be cynical, which is an oh-so-easy trap to fall into these days. No one likes a cynic and cynicism has no place in living life fully or being able to create new art. It is tempting to be cynical especially as we grow older, but I think that’s why we need to remind ourselves that we have a choice not to be cynical. We have the power to not ruin other people’s days with caustic comments that “chill and dishearten.”

I am especially reminded of the need to be open to new experiences and life as it comes when I start teaching a new group of freshmen, which I do almost every fall. Most are bright-eyed and start the term with wonder tinged with some trepidation. But there’s always one or two who wear their cynicism on their sleeves as if it were a good thing, a mark of maturity. They declare that they already know everything there is to know about life. I nod and carry on with class. But, if I’m very lucky, by the end of the term I’ve been able to help them find a crack in their cynicism so they have the possibility of being open to learning and changing and growing. It doesn’t always work, but it keeps me from being cynical about teaching.

So all I’m saying is don’t be cynical. Be open to the wonder that is inherent in life and use that to motivate you, inspire you, and move you to create whatever beauty you were put on this earth to make. I hope you have a lovely weekend. πŸ™‚

Paper is Forever

The sound of wind through autumn leaves always reminds me of paper and paper is one of my favorite things. I suppose that might sound weird, but it is true. I love paper– Notebook paper, newspaper, origami paper, handmade paper with bits of flowers embedded in the weave, and perhaps most of all, I love paper in books.

One of the books I’ve recently read was Chip Kidd’s Judge This. It is, of course, a wonderful book, funny, insightful, and full of beautiful design examples. But the one thing that stood out most for me was the sentence I’ve written in calligraphy for this week.

"Paper does not die, because it's already dead and resurrected." Chip Kidd

“Paper does not die, because it’s already dead and resurrected.” Chip Kidd

I read this line and squealed. It is just so perfect andΒ conveys my feelings about paper, too. Paper is forever. When I curl up at night in bed to read, I love the feel of a book’s paper in my hands. Computers and digital documents make my work easier and communication faster, but my love will always be for paper things. [Also, I love that Chip Kidd is also a fan of binder clips.]

While this week’s quote might not be as universally inspirational as some of the others I’ve used in my calligraphy practice, it is inspirational to me (and I hope some others, too). Perhaps it has made you smile, too, or at least think about paper in a different way than you had before. πŸ™‚

Success and Grit

It has been a tiring, hot, strange week here in the Bay Area. We are finally supposed to be on a cooling trend and hopefully this weekend (and the coming week) will be less tiring. This quote I wrote out for my door at work seems especially apt after this week.

"Success seems to be largely a matter of holding on after others have let go." William Feather

“Success seems to be largely a matter of holding on after others have let go.” William Feather

Talk about success and grit seems to be all the rage now. How can we teach our students to be grittier? How can we train ourselves to exhibit more grit in the face of obstacles and challenges? What allows some to struggle and persevere when others give up? I don’t know the answers to those questions, although some people are looking into the answers to those questions. Β I’m looking forward to reading more of their results in the future, but until then I find this quote inspiring when I don’t feel so “gritty.”

Sometimes it is hard to continue to work, day in and day out, without any outward sign of progress or validation, especially when it seems like some people seem to be overnight successes. But it does seem, as I continue on in life and work and writing and calligraphy that success is about keeping on keeping on when others have given up and let go. If we keep learning and growing and working, then success will probably come. It’s not a guarantee (but then few things are in life), but we have a better chance than if we give up our work we are passionate about, our dreams, our visions.

So I keep looking for inspiration in the everyday moments and keep learning and writing and challenging myself because it’s what I have control over. And, also, I’ll never have to wonder what might have been if I’d have just kept at it for a little while longer. (Also, who isn’t getting just a little excited for NaNoWriMo already? Or is it just me?)

I hope you have a lovely day full of whatever inspires you to keep working towards the goals in your life that keep you passionate, alive, and growing. πŸ™‚

Startling Life

Time is just flying by now that we are in September, so I thought this quote from Emily Dickinson was rather appropriate.

"To live is startling it leaves little time for anything else." Emily Dickinson

“To live is startling it leaves little time for anything else.” Emily Dickinson

Sometimes living does seem so startling that there doesn’t seem to be time to do anything but hold on tight and hope we make it through the week. This last week was rather like that for me. When I have weeks like that, I have to remind myself to take time to pause, breathe, and remember that not every week can be incredibly productive and that sometimes just living is enough.

So I’m doubly grateful for a three-day weekend so I can rest, kick a bit of a cold that I picked up somewhere, and get back to creating. I’m also rather happy by how the calligraphy turned out. I remembered to put my traveling calligraphy pen in my bag so I’m ready for all occasions that necessitate some fancy writing.

I hope that if your life is startling this weekend, it is startling in a positive, joyful way. I’ll be back with some more calligraphy and thoughts on books and writing soon. I hope you have a lovely day. πŸ™‚

Wisdom…Sometimes

Oh, my goodness! With traveling and visiting with family (and not carrying my laptop with me), I never got to posting a second time last week. I’m sorry and hopefully this post will make up for it (and I’ll see if I can’t get some posts in the queue, too). This week’s quote is another of my favorites from a wonderful author.

"Wisdom is better than wit." Jane Austen

“Wisdom is better than wit.” Jane Austen

I quite like this quote (and was fairly pleased by how my calligraphy turned out, though that does remind me that I need to bring some more calligraphy supplies to my office). I’m not one of those people who are always quick with a joke or a retort, so this quote gives me comfort that it is okay. And I do try to display some wisdom and hope I’m getting better with age. Or, to paraphrase Neil Gaiman, if you can’t be wise, just pretend and do what a wise person would do! (Good idea for another week’s quote to calligraphy, too!) πŸ™‚

The best, of course, would be to have both wit and wisdom. But life is messy and hardly ever turns out as neatly as a story in the end, so all we can do is try. So try to be wise and who knows, maybe one day we’ll be witty, too.

I hope your July is going wonderfully well and you have time to relax and dream. Because, of course, in your great wisdom you know that relaxation is just as important as getting all your chores done and sometimes we all work better after a nap. πŸ™‚

Building Doors

Hello! I hope your day is going well. I know I missed last week in sharing a quote from my door, so I will post two this week. This is one of my favorite quotes and also one that challenges me.

"If opportunity doesn't knock, build a door." Milton Berle

“If opportunity doesn’t knock, build a door.” Milton Berle

I’m sure most of us have heard this quote before about how we have to make our own destinies/success/opportunities/etc. because opportunities aren’t just handed to us; they are a result of our own tenacity. Sometimes, I think that is true, and I do believe in hard work in order to achieve my goals. But we all know (or hopefully we do) that not everyone gets an equal shot at opportunities or door building or luck. Lots of opportunities depend on luck, just being in the right place at the right time or having the right connections.

So I use this quote to remind me to not wait for lucky breaks to come my way, but to be actively engaged in working towards the goals I have for myself. It also reminds me that I need to keep working to help create a world where everyone has the opportunity to build their own door to achieve their goals and dreams.

So what door are you building and what goals are you accomplishing? I hope you are moving forward in achieving your dreams and you are helping others along the way. I also hope you have a lovely day! πŸ™‚

What You Are

Happy first day of July! I can hardly believe that we are already into July. Second half of the year. Wow. I feel like I need to take a break to catch my breath and figure out what I’ve done with the first half of the year and what I want to do with the second half of the year. How has your year been going? I hope well.

This quote I had hanging on my door a week ago is something I sometimes have a hard time remembering, but I think is very important for everyone to remember, especially on those hard days when it seems like everything is going wrong and everything you say is getting misinterpreted.

"It matters not what you are thought to be, but what you are." Anonymous

“It matters not what you are thought to be, but what you are.” Anonymous

I’ve been spending the morning writing and catching up reading all the articles I’ve marked coming over my RSS feeds as I’m going into work late today (working a late shift tonight). Many of the feeds I marked were about finding your authentic self, your true goals, and what matters to you in life. So this quote seemed especially appropriate to share today.

What matters is who we are and how we manifest ourselves in the world. Someone is always going to disagree with us, or think our dreams are silly, or our goals impossible, or our work irrelevant. Β But that doesn’t really matter. It can hurt, but it’s more about them than us. Or, on the flip side, people might sometimes praise us excessively or decide our work is now hip and cool. Then we get hooked on the praise and can feel like we need it to survive. But neither the dismissal or the praise is what matters. Keeping true to our core values matters. And hopefully, we are wonderful, kind, flawed, dreaming, striving, helping, caring, human beings creating projects and things in the world that make it better through whatever gifts and talents and skills we have to share.

So let’s try not to let others’ opinions or thoughts about us matter so much and let’s just get busy creating the work and lives and world we want to see. Have a wonderful start to your July! πŸ™‚

Doing Things

I hope your week is going well and you get some time to enjoy a bit of summer relaxation. It is hard to believe we are already over half-way through June and even if it isn’t technically summer yet, it is sure feeling like summer to me. Hot weather makes me want to nap and not do much, but the more relaxed state of mind in summer also allows me to think & plan what I want to accomplish, thus this week’s quote.

"You've got your whole life to do something, and that's not very long." Ani Difranco

“You’ve got your whole life to do something, and that’s not very long.” Ani Difranco

This quote makes me take stock of what I’m doing and try to figure out if I’m moving forward in the right direction. (I know the spacing is a bit off between the first and second lines, but that’s what I get for freehanding it at work. I really need to bring in my T-Square and fountain calligraphy pens for when I do calligraphy on my break, but anyway…) Sometimes it seems like a year is so long and other times it seems like a year is hardly any time at all to create anything.

So I think about Ani Difranco’s thought that we don’t have a very long to do what we want on this planet, in this life. I hope that you are working towards what you feel is important with people who are important to you. Life’s about what we do and who we do it with, I think, and that’s true whether it is in the heat of summer or the cold of winter.

But remember, having a purpose and doing something don’t preclude us from having some summer fun and relaxation as well. Have a great one. πŸ™‚

Responsible Greatness

I’ve been reading through a book of quotes I purchased years ago and came across a number of quotes from Churchill, so I thought sharing this one that I had on my door last week made sense.

"The price of greatness is responsibility" Winston Churchill

“The price of greatness is responsibility” Winston Churchill

This quote is a reminder to me about taking responsibility in all areas of my life. I like the idea of responsible greatness. That if we achieve greatness, we then have a greater responsibility to use are greatness to help. There are many ways to be great, but if we don’t help each other, acknowledge one another’s humanity, and strive always for generosity then we are not really, truly great. I think of this a lot when I’m teaching, not because I think I’ve achieved greatness (I always have more to learn when it comes to teaching), but because I have a great responsibility to the students I teach. It is a responsibility I take very seriously. I have the responsibility to provide a space for them to expand their knowledge, to facilitate their learning, and to demonstrate that failure happens and it is what we do after we fail that shows us what we can be in our lives.

So I leave you with Churchill reminding us of our responsibility, no matter where we fall on the path to greatness. It is especially important for those who are in positions of power to remember their responsibilities and not let the love of power cloud their work.

I’ll be posting again soon about some more books I’m reading and looking forward to read as we head through this sixth month of the year during our race around the sun. πŸ™‚

Preferring Reading

Happy Friday! As promised, to make up for not posting last week, here is my second calligraphy post for the week.

"People say that life is the thing, but I prefer reading." Logan Pearsall Smith

“People say that life is the thing, but I prefer reading.” Logan Pearsall Smith

I like this quote because it seems a little bit cheeky to me and it also sums up how I’m feeling at the end of this week. It’s been a short week (yay for 3-day weekend!), but a long week with all the work that needed to get done. So I’m a bit drained and feel like curling up with a good book, a cup of tea, and my cat would be a pretty fine way of spending the weekend.

In other “not day job news,” I finished my latest round of revisions on a draft manuscript and I’m sending it out to beta readers now (thank goodness for awesome friends and my patient husband). I think that a reward of reading a new book sounds like just the thing as I also dive into finishing up a short story I want to send off for an upcoming anthology call. (Nothing like writing more and sending out more stories to stack up those rejection letters. What doesn’t kill us when sharing our writing (or calligraphy) makes us more determined, right? At least that’s how I’m going with it, along with a good book to read while waiting for the letters. πŸ™‚ )

So I think it’s going to be a reading weekend. I’ll probably do another “What does this stack of books say?” post soon, too. Until then, I hope you have a fabulous weekend full of reading if you, like me, find that reading is sometimes life, too. πŸ™‚